The main question is "Do you own your pain?" As long as you do not own your pain-that is, integrate your pain into your way of being in the world-the danger exists that you will use the other to seek healing for yourself. When you speak to others about your pain without fully owning it, you expect something from them that they cannot give. As a result, you will feel frustrated, and those you wanted to help will feel confused, disappointed, or even further burdened.
( Henri J.M. Nouwen )
[ The Inner Voice of Love ]
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